
Chosen Home is a Japanese BL series about a single gay man who pretends to be his teenage neighbour's parent. The main character recently moved into an apartment with his stray animals. He befriends the middle school student who lives alone next door. She has a bad relationship with her biological father and wants to avoid him. When a teacher insists on meeting her family, the protagonist gets caught up in her web of lies.
I simply adore Chosen Home, a sweet and thoughtful drama full of positivity. It explores meaningful storylines, especially about aging and LGBTQ+ experiences. There are many lovable characters with memorable quirks. Their personalities shine in hilarious plots, but the intimate moments also tug at our heartstrings. While the couple's romance is lacklustre, I still enjoy the vibrant performances and cozy rapport between everyone.
Chosen Home Summary
Title:
ぼくたちん家
Series Info:
Japan (2025)
Genre:
Romance
About:
Chosen Home is a nice and heartwarming BL drama.
Plot

Genichi Hatano is a single gay man living alone. He works as a zookeeper at Nakayoshi Plaza. While he loves the job, people keep abandoning their pets at the zoo. Hatano has already brought home two dogs (Chizu and Chan) plus a turtle (Dora), even though his apartment strictly bans pets. Recently, someone left a bird in a cage. Hatano takes it in, adding Banana to his family of strays. Unfortunately, he gets caught. The apartment sent him an eviction notice for violating the no-pets policy, and now he must vacate.
Hatano reaches out to his friend Okabe, a real estate agent, to help him find a new rental. Okabe actually suggests he just buy a place, but Hatano hasn't saved enough money for that. At 50, Hatano just laughs off the idea of getting a loan. He's perfectly fine sticking with a rental for now. Okabe takes him to this run-down apartment building, but the location is great. The best part? The landlord, Inokashira, is cool with pets. The building is basically empty right now. It's just Inokashira and one other tenant named Hotaru, so she's happy to have the company. Hatano decides to go for it and moves in.
Hatano is looking for love, so he meets up with Momose at a gay dating agency. While they're looking through candidate profiles, Hatano opens up about his loneliness. He just wants a partner to share a big tub of ice cream with. However, Hatano is self-conscious about his age and keeps thinking no one would be interested in him. He backs out of the matchmaking thing, but Momose quotes the Japanese author Osamu Dazai: "Man was born for love and revolution." She wants him to reconsider and take a leap of faith in romance.
Hatano crosses paths with his teenage neighbour, Hotaru. She's a middle-schooler living by herself. Her mom, Tomoe, is on the run after embezzling money from her job. Her dad, Jin, has been out of the picture since the divorce and has a new family now. He doesn't want to look after her. Hotaru has managed to trick social services into thinking she has a guardian. In reality, she's on her own, and the landlady helps keep her secret. Hotaru spends her time skipping school to hang out with friends, which exasperates her teacher, Sakuta.
Hatano and Sakuta meet at the zoo. Hatano is trying to fix a broken bench, and Sakuta helps him out. Later, Hatano finds Sakuta's old marriage certificate. He realizes Sakuta wanted to marry his ex-boyfriend, Yoshida. Hatano decides to meddle a bit and see if he can help the couple reconnect. Meanwhile, Hotaru needs a favour from Hatano. Her teacher, Sakuta, is demanding a parent-teacher conference. Instead of calling her biological dad, she asks Hatano to pretend to be her father. He feels bad for the lonely teenager and tries to play along with her request.
Chosen Home Cast
Characters
Hatano
Mitsuhiro Oikawa (及川光博)

Genichi Hatano is a 50-year-old zookeeper who lives with the stray animals people abandon at his job. He's a single gay man who just wants someone to share a bowl of ice cream with. However, he feels self-conscious about his age. After moving into a new apartment, Hatano meets his teenage neighbour and tries to be friendly with her. He's shocked when Hotaru asks him to pretend to be her father.
Mitsuhiro Oikawa

Mitsuhiro Oikawa (及川光博) is a Japanese actor. He is born on October 24, 1969. His first BL leading role is the 2025 drama, Chosen Home. He also appears in What Did You Eat Yesterday? 2 (2023) and Love Song (2025).
Hotaru
Tamaki Shiratori (白鳥玉季)

Hotaru is a 15-year-old middle school student and Hatano's neighbour. Her mom is on the run for embezzlement, while her dad is busy with a new family. Hotaru is resourceful and tricks social services into thinking she has a real guardian. In reality, she actually lives on her own. Desperate to keep her secret from her teacher, she asks Hatano to step in and play the role of a father figure.
Tamaki Shiratori

Tamaki Shiratori (白鳥玉季) is a Japanese actress. She is born on January 20, 2010. Her BL portfolio includes the 2025 drama, Chosen Home.
Sakuta
Yuya Tegoshi (手越祐也)

Saku Sakuta is a 38-year-old middle school teacher. He notices that Hotaru skips school often and feels genuinely worried about her. Sakuta wants to have a parent-teacher meeting, even though Hotaru keeps trying to delay it. Outside of school, Sakuta meets Hatano after helping him fix a broken bench at a zoo. Later, Hatano finds Sakuta's old marriage certificate. Hatano realizes Sakuta once dreamed of marrying his ex-boyfriend, Yoshida.
Yuya Tegoshi

Yuya Tegoshi (手越祐也) is a Japanese actor. He is born on November 11, 1987. His first BL leading role is the 2025 drama, Chosen Home.
Supporting Cast

Jin
Ken Mitsuishi (光石研)

Tomoe
Kumiko Aso (麻生久美子)

Inokashira
Maki Sakai (坂井真紀)
Hotaru's Guardians
Jin and Tomoe are Hotaru's biological parents. Inokashira is the landlord who manages Hotaru and Hatano's apartment.

Yoshida
Kai Inowaki (井之脇海)

Koito
Ryohei Otani (大谷亮平)

Okabe
Naoke Tanaka (田中直樹)

Momose
Nagisa Shibuya (渋谷凪咲)

Matsu
Shiori Doi (土居志央梨)

Chiyoko
Saori Yuki (由紀さおり)
Family & Friends
Yoshida is Sakuta's ex-boyfriend, while Koito and Okabe are Hatano's friends. Momose works at a dating agency, Matsu is a police detective, and Chiyoko is Hatano's mother.

Chasu

Chan

Banana

Dora

Usamaru

Inokashira's cat
Animals
Hatano is taking care of these stray animals: Chasu and Chan (dogs), Banana (bird), and Dora (tortoise). Usamaru is a rabbit adopted by Jin. Inokashira also owns a cat.

Nacchi
Miyu Oshima (大島美優)

Bayashiko
Anna Hoshino (星乃あんな)

Myoga
Shinnosuke Nishiura (西浦心乃助)
Hotaru's Friends
Nacchi, Bayashiko, and Myoga are Hotaru's friends. The four of them are known as the "Toykyo Kids". They hang out with each other instead of going to school, while Koito keeps an eye on them.

Kurita
Maki Kubota (久保田磨希)

Fujisawa
Rio Kawaguchi (川口凉旺)

Kotaru
Hatano's Coworkers
Kurita is Hatano's boss at the zoo, while Fujisawa is a coworker. Kotaru is a goat at the zoo.

Ryogo
Kemio (けみお)

Umou
Imou Haruka (芋生悠)

Kazuki
Hinata Hiiragi (柊木陽太)

Kishibe
Hajime Inoue (井上肇)

Young Hatano
Yuta Kobayashi (小林優太)

Young Koito
Ryusei Miyamoto (宮本琉成)
Others
Ryogo is Koita's partner. Umou is a manga artist that Hatano's mother admires. Kazuki is Kishibe's grandson, and the two of them make guitars. Hatano and Koito knew each other at middle school.
Cast Highlights
Mitsuhiro Oikawa
Hatano's actor has a small role in the 2023 Japanese BL drama, What Did You Eat Yesterday ? 2 and the 2025 movie, Love Song.
Ken Mitsuishi
Jin's actor has a supporting role in the movie BL Metamorphosis (2022).
Maki Sakai
Inokashira's actress appears in the 2025 drama, Gold Sunset. The series has a gay storyline in Episode 4.
Kai Inowaki
Yoshida's actor has appeared in 2021 live-action drama, Given.
Shiori Doi
Matsu's actress has a supporting role in Life: Love on the Line (2020).
Hinata Hiiragi
Kazuki's actor is one of the leads in the 2023 movie, Monster.
Chosen Home Review
Review
Drama Review Score: 8.6

Chosen Home is a BL drama for the grown-ups in the room. I like that it focuses on an older gay man in his 50s, a demographic that's rarely given the spotlight. The series explores mature topics, such as aging and loneliness, that you just don't see with younger characters. It also handles many LGBTQ+ issues, which are always treated with respect. I'm grateful that Chosen Home simply exists, providing meaningful representation and spreading positivity everywhere. This wonderful story fills my heart with so much warmth.
I love how Hatano, Hotaru, and other quirky characters grow close like an unconventional family. Hatano acts like that one meddling gay uncle we all know and adore. He befriends Hotaru, a young girl left behind by her biological parents. Hatano becomes Hotaru's father figure, nanny, therapist, tutor, and even an accomplice in crime. Their relationship comes alive in hilarious storylines, making you laugh at all the silly antics. Other moments are deeply personal, like an intimate conversation that tugs at your heartstrings. Chosen Home has many well-written scenes that hit the right emotional notes.
The characters are so lovable! Some have colourful personalities, while others go on complex journeys. The whole ensemble cast gets a chance to shine, so they're all memorable in their own way. Even Hotaru's parents, who abandoned their daughter, are written with nuance. The story has fun subplots that bring together unlikely characters, making the group dynamics more interesting. By the end, I know everybody so well that I can give you five fun facts about any of them. I've grown weirdly attached to my fictional friends. Scoot over, I'm joining their family!
Hatano pretends to be Hotaru's dad so she won't be taken away by social services. A few people come close to exposing the truth, so the leads must scramble and avoid getting caught. I'm rooting for them, but my brain can't stop poking holes in the plot. Why does no one ask for an ID? Hotaru's mom is a fugitive, so the police should cross-reference every relative. I also question each character's logic. Would Hatano go this far to help a neighbour? Would everyone else casually sign up for a felony? This ridiuclous story relies on too many conveniences for it to work.
The plot holes are only a minor issue. My biggest problem with this series is actually the lack of romance, since I don't believe Hatano and Sakuta are in love. They have zero sparks or chemistry, but it isn't because of their age gap. Early on, Sakuta kept his distance, and Hatano looked desperate while begging for his attention. Later, Sakuta treats their relationship with businesslike efficiency, planning a budget and browsing home listings. Where's the affection? He seems more in love with the idea of settling down with anyone, and Hatano is just the most available partner.
Even if Chosen Home doesn't feel romantic, it still offers a lot to love. I appreciate it for showing two men in a long-term relationship. Hell yes, the gentle story sends a powerful message about marriage equality! I'm also impressed with Hotaru's actress (Tamaki Shiratori), who has a promising career ahead of her. The whole cast clicks well together and shares a cozy rapport. The finale is full of positivity, but it feels bittersweet to say goodbye. Chosen Home has been my safe space and my happy place for the entire series, so I'm gonna miss all these characters!
Summary
Heartwarming story
Chosen Home offers a heartwarming story with many endearing characters. Even if the plot feels too absurd, I like how it tackles aging, loneliness, found families, and LGBTQ+ topics.
Weak romance
Despite its positive messages about gay couples, Hatano & Sakuta lack any spark or chemistry. The relationship feels more like a practical business arrangement than a passionate romance.
Strong acting
Hotaru's actress (Tamaki Shiratori) gives a strong performance, while the entire cast shares a comfortable rapport. There are many memorable characters because they portray their roles so well.
Happy ending
Chosen Home has a happy ending full of positivity. It delivers a ton of character growth and heartwarming messages, leaving everyone in a better place than where they started.
Cozy artistry
The series is a visual comfort, filled with warm colours, cozy decor, and a wardrobe that makes you want to curl up on the couch. The pets are adorable additions that pull the domestic aesthetic together.
86%
I adore Chosen Home for its thoughtful messages and lovable characters. Many well-written scenes hit the right emotional notes, even if the couple's relationship doesn't feel that romantic.
Chosen Home Episodes
Episode Guide

- Start Date October 12, 2025
- End Date December 14, 2025
- Episodes 10 episodes
- Episode Length 45 minutes
Chosen Home has a total of 10 episodes. Each episode is around 45 minutes long. It is a long BL drama, and you can finish the entire series in under 8 hours. Chosen Home started on October 12, 2025 and finished on December 14, 2025.
Episode 1
Episode 1 Review

"Man was born for love and revolution." Oh, I adore this line, and it's a really great way to kick off the series. At the start of the story, Hatano is stuck in a rut. He's 50, single and slightly cautious to mingle. After losing his self-confidence, he tries to back out of the matchmaking service. Momose's quote (well, technically, it's Osamu Dazai's quote) is exactly what Hatano needs to hear. Dude, you need to shake things up! Man was not born for loneliness and despair. Let's start a damn revolution with your love life!
A great thing about Japanese BL is its age diversity, which puts older gay men in the spotlight. This genre is oversaturated with too many characters in their teens and twenties. I always welcome more mature romances because they provide fresh storylines. It's great to have a 50-year-old protagonist like Hatano and get his perspective on life. Besides his age, Hatano is quite a unique lead because he breaks the mould of a cool older man. He's essentially a meddling, big-hearted uncle who's still sorting out his life. Hatano is more of an ordinary guy than a romantic hero, which makes him charming.
When they first met, Hotaru was standoffish toward Hatano. She barely gave him the time of day. The turning point in their relationship comes after she overhears his conversation and finds out he's gay. Oh, the BL fangirl in her has activated! Suddenly, the annoying neighbour becomes way more interesting. She probably sees him as an underdog in life, much like her. Instead of being another authority figure who judges her, he's an outsider who knows what it's like to be misunderstood. That vulnerability helps Hotaru connect with Hatano, making her trust him more.
Chosen Home Information
Links
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- Website Chosen Home website
- Wikipedia Chosen Home Wikipedia
- Wikipedia ぼくたちん家 Wikipedia
Director
Hironori Kujiraoka (鯨岡弘識) and Hitomi Kitagawa (北川瞳) are the co-directors for Chosen Home. Hitomi has also directed Minato's Coin Laundry 2 (2023).